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How to Hold Her Hand For the First Time

October 19, 2011 by  
Filed under Dating tips

Holding a girl’s hand is one of the first step in courting, here are 3 creative ideas to connect and hold her hand. Well, technically, you do not hold hands, but touch hands, and that should be an excellent start. Use this simple ideas if you're not totally sure about your sentiments toward a girl, or if you're still testing the waters. As you go on about your friendship, there'll be a chance to connect, to feel without committing, to determine if sparks will fly.

Gimme Five

When you share a winning moment, say winning a football game or finishing a project, ask the girl to offer you 5 by holding out your palm facing up and say, "Gimme five!" With such an amicable and risk free move, she'll definitely oblige. As quickly as she slaps your hand, temporarily shut your eyes and savor the experience. If you felt sparks, then she is definitely a keeper.

If not, then don't lose all hope, there are more occasions to physically connect to her and test if the relationship is headed somewhere.

I Got You

This excellent opportunity to hold a girl's hand occurs when the girl is preparing to overcome a difficulty and would need support, say as she lands from a vehicle or flight of steps or when jumping across a pool of water.

Do the following : As the girl is getting ready to start on the activity, look into her eyes gently and convey, without words, you're there for her. If she is looked away and is focussing on the hurdle in front of her, then bravely declare you are there by exclaiming, "I got you" or "here," and concurrently hold out your hand with the palms up and fingers a touch cupped.

As she is taking your hands, you'll think that she will cup her hands onto your palms, as if securing herself on you and may put on some weight, particularly when she is on her way down.

Reply by safely cupping your fingers and locking your elbows and shoulders to accept the extra weight that she is going to put on you. Just be conscious not to hold too hard, as she may feel a strain if her hands are squeezed too tight. As she overcomes her hindrance, gradually ease the grip, but do not let go of her hands as yet. This is a call moment for you, whether to take the chance to continue holding her hand, or to allow her go and hope for a next time.

If you choose to hold on, then ease into to the following kind of holding hands, for a cushty connection. If you make a decision to let go, then confirm she recalls the experience. Caress her hand by sliding your thumb on top of her hand or sliding you fingers at the side of her hand.

Simultaneously, ask if she is ok, or if she is good to go.

Shortly as she says OK, carefully let go and respectfully bid her to, "take care on your way," or "have a good walk."

Locked to me

If you're in a stable relationship, then you know that physical intimacy is a part of fostering your bond. Holding hands is a complicated part of your relationship. Whether you do it in private or public, holding hands doesn't only connect your feelings but augments it too.

One of the commonest kinds of holding hands is the "locked to me" way. This style has to do with interlocking your fingers with hers, as you hold hands. As your palms align, the fingers will naturally align.

Nonetheless to be intertwined, pivot your palm a touch sideways and open up the spaces between your fingers. As your fingers open up, the girl's fingers will naturally fall into the spaces between, so both of your fingers swap with one another. Just curl your gingers to the back of the other's palms and your fingers and hands become locked to one another.

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