The ABC’s of How to Impress a Girl
April 1, 2007 by Vincent Yim
Filed under Girlfriends
How to impress a girl is a very rich topic that has been written about since man has learned the art of writing. There is one truth that lies behind the topic of impressing women – there are no hard and fast rules on how to do it! However, there are general guidelines which have been proven effective on how to achieve the goal of impressing women.
The basic ABC’s of how to attract women consist of primary guidelines any man (and woman for that matter) can follow in order to achieve success in the seemingly impossible achievement of attracting women – be it at work, at a party or even a bar. Although these ABC guidelines are not a guarantee of success, they are very useful in ensuring that you will become more attractive to women without being pushy.
Always be ready with a smile. Women see a smile as irresistible and they find a smiling man honest and easy to be with.
Learn to listen. All women love good listeners! If you listen attentively to what a woman is saying, she already feels a connection with you because you can identify with what she is talking about. This can pave the way to get to know each other better.
Be yourself and be real. Never tell a lie about yourself or your past. It is bound to be discovered, sooner or later. When this happens, all your hard work of attracting a particular person goes down the drain.
Do not be an overbearing person. Women hate men who are absorbed only in themselves!
Always focus your eye on the woman you are with regardless if someone more beautiful passes by or walks into a room. Show the woman you are with that you are interested in her and no one else – for the moment.
Be confident and self-reliant of your capabilities. Women hate whiners and losers.
Keep yourself well groomed and smelling good every time, all the time.
Intersperse your conversations with women with a laugh and a smile, depending on the topic. But remember, do not grin like an idiot or laugh like a hyena!
Keep fit! Present yourself as athletically as possible. Women love being protected and taken cared of; therefore by having a good physique, you are indirectly telling them that I can protect you.
Following these simple ABC guidelines would surely pave the way to more successful relationships with women. Although it will not happen overnight, practicing the guidelines would surely make you more attractive as word gets around – especially in the office!